Dan Savage

Columnist Savage Love

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  • Savage Love: Stranger Things

    Savage Love: Stranger Things

    I'm a lady considering taking on a foot fetishist as a slave. He would do chores around my house, including cleaning and laundry, and give foot rubs and pedicures in exchange for getting to worship and jack off to my model-perfect feet when I've decided he's earned it. Am I morally obligated to...

  • Savage Love: Hard to Do

    Savage Love: Hard to Do

    My brother just broke up with his girlfriend for the second time in eight months. They had been together for two and a half years, and she became pretty discontent when she finished college and my brother entered law school because all his time and attention weren't revolving around her. In January,...

  • Savage Love: Don't Fuck Nazis

    Savage Love: Don't Fuck Nazis

    A few years ago, my dad was busted by the cops for using an online forum to solicit escorts. The arrest and infidelity destroyed his marriage to my mom. My brother and I were in our mid-teens at the time and were angry enough with him that we asked him to not seek custody. He obliged, and neither...

  • Savage Love: Quickies

    Savage Love: Quickies

    I've been wondering: Since there are lesbians out there who occasionally crave cock, does the reverse also happen? Are there gay men who occasionally crave pussy? This Possible? There are gay men who watch football—hell, I have it on good authority that some gay men play football, TP. So anything...

  • Savage Love: Commit to Something

    Savage Love: Commit to Something

    My boyfriend of eight months, K, and I are polyamorous. We started the relationship on that foot, and for a while I was the partner he spent the most time with. There have been ups and downs, but overall our relationship is solid and loving. However, recently we both started dating the same woman,...

  • Savage Love: Crossed Dressers

    Savage Love: Crossed Dressers

    My wife has been seriously ill for three years, and I have been her sole caregiver. The doctors here weren't getting the job done, so we made the difficult decision for her to move 2,000 miles away to start over and be near her family. Our sex life has been nonexistent since she became ill. She...

  • Savage Love: Creepers

    Savage Love: Creepers

    I'm a reader in Kansas with two teenage daughters, 16 and 18. My girls recently met a boy where they work and both took an interest in him. The 18-year-old was devastated that he was more interested in her younger sister. I spoke to the 16-year-old about it, which is when I found out this boy is...

  • Savage Love: Come Again

    Savage Love: Come Again

    I'm a 35-year-old straight woman, recently married, and everything is great. But I have been having problems reaching orgasm. When we first started dating, I had them all the time. It was only after we got engaged that it became an issue. He is not doing anything differently, and he works hard...

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