Dan Savage

Columnist Savage Love

Recent Articles

  • Savage Love: Never Enough

    Savage Love: Never Enough

    I think my husband is addicted to porn. I find porn in his browser history almost every single day. He says I’m the only one he wants, but I find that hard to believe knowing he watches nonstop porn before fucking me. He also parties every time he goes on a business trip. Needless to say, I also...

  • Savage Love: Massive Cock Blocks

    Savage Love: Massive Cock Blocks

    I found this in an online sex ad: “Straight guy with an addiction to massive cocks in my ass.” This “straight guy” went on to mention his girlfriend. Can a person really identify as straight while wanting to be fucked by men? I understand that straight guys can like ass play too, but it’s not like...

  • Savage Love: Loving Couples

    Savage Love: Loving Couples

    I’m a straight guy in my 30s dating a woman in her mid-20s. We’ve been together for a year, and I’m crazy about her. In love, even. She’s gorgeous, sweet, kind, loving, and very sexual. She’s perfect. In her late teens and early 20s, she had a wild sex life. She attended sex parties, had loads...

  • Savage Love: Truth Be Told

    Savage Love: Truth Be Told

    When I was 15, I had a three-month-long sexual relationship with a 32-year-old woman. She was a friend of the family, and my parents were going through a divorce. I stayed with her for the summer, and she initiated a sexual relationship. Looking back, I can see that she had been grooming me. We...

  • Savage Love: Brief of Hearts

    Savage Love: Brief of Hearts

    wife issues. lack of intimacy. cuckold, etc. need help While I typically encourage people to keep their questions brief, it is possible to be too brief, NH. But I’ve gotten so many questions from wannabe cuckolds with wife issues over the years that I’m going to hazard a series of guesses and take...

  • Savage Love: Sick and Easy

    Savage Love: Sick and Easy

    I have been reading your column for years, Dan, and now I’m writing you for the first time to ask for a favor. I met this dude online in December and I felt like we had a good connection. He “dumped” me, though, because he was busy and was going through career shit and lived halfway across the...

  • Savage Love: Daddy Issues

    Savage Love: Daddy Issues

    My father is 65 years old and has been a devoted husband to my mother who has been battling a medical condition for the past 30 years—a condition that prevents her from engaging in sexual activity of any kind. He has not had sex in all this time and is desperately frustrated. He’s not internet...

  • Savage Love: The Ethical Sadist

    Savage Love: The Ethical Sadist

    My 15-year-old son has been watching sadistic porn—and ONLY sadistic porn—for a couple of years. He also tells us (husband and me) that, though he’s not had sex (which he defjnines as penetration), he’s had oral sex, hand jobs, etc., and that he didn’t “flash on” violent images at those times....